November 2019 Update: Dr. Hindy has retired from routine clinical practice and closed his Nashua, NH office. Please direct all business and records inquiries to: Carl Hindy, Ph.D., PO Box 212, Newmarket, NH 03857. Requests should be signed and include contact information for verification and clarification purposes. Thank-you.
July 2020 and Onward: Dr.Hindy has resumed a very limited private practice in his retirement. This is in the NH Seacoast area (Newmarket, Exeter) and by tele-therapy as needed. Please check his Office Voice Message for whether he is accepting new clients at this time: (603) 880-8773






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One of the most experienced doctoral level relationship and marriage counselors in NH. Dr. Hindy has been a doctoral level clinical psychologist for well over thirty years in Nashua, New Hampshire. Carl Hindy, Ph.D., provides marriage counseling, premarital counseling, family counseling, teen counseling and individual psychotherapy. He consults and writes on relationship topics, mentors other counselors, and is involved in many aspects of his profession. Yet he maintains his availability by telephone to personally discuss questions and concerns you might have prior to starting your counseling.

It has been important to Dr. Hindy, since starting his counseling practice in Nashua, NH in 1987, that it remain a comfortable small office setting respectful of your privacy needs. There is no clinic bureaucracy or "take a number" atmosphere in Dr. Hindy's office. To make that point, he welcomes your phone call to answer questions, to discuss counseling services, or to obtain referrals to other professionals if that seems more appropriate. After studying the web site, please feel free to call with any questions, or to schedule an initial visit in his Exeter NH office.

Depression, anxiety, and other mental health problems are very common. Even more common are the times when we all have felt stuck, preoccupied, or at a crossroad in our lives and unsure how to proceed.  Dr. Hindy believes that giving yourself the opportunity to talk openly -- with a neutral, non-judgmental and experienced professional -- can help you to move ahead. In our marriages, relationships and family life, so often we find ourselves thinking, "If only we could communicate!"   For relationships, Dr. Hindy wholeheartedly believes that how we communicate is what causes so many problems, and improving communication ultimately is key to more happiness and fulfillment.


Counseling Services:

  • Marriage Counseling

  • Premarital Counseling

  • Family Counseling

  • Individual Counseling

  • Self-control of behavioral addictions to Internet, pornography, social media, etc.

Marriage Counseling and Premarital Counseling Services:

  • Communication problems between women and men
  • Understanding his and her different needs
  • Affection, intimacy and sexuality concerns
  • Understanding and managing the repeating cycles of conflict
  • Improving decision making as a couple
  • Rebuilding understanding, empathy, and caring behaviors
  • Facing an affair, infidelity: professional intervention when a partner cheats. 
  • Managing impulses, setting boundaries, and enhancing trust
  • Problems of attachment, separation, and loss
  • Sorting out thoughts and feelings, "Head" versus "Heart" in relationships.

Individual and Family Counseling Services:

  • Adjusting to changes in your life
  • Anxiety, depression, bipolar and other mood disorders
  • Balancing individuality, family and career
  • Setting goals for personal growth
  • Families of divorce, blended families
  • Parenting your child or teen
  • Woman's issues
  • Transcending trauma and abuse
  • Understanding and improving relationships

Dr. Hindy is co-author of

"If This Is Love, Why Do I Feel So Insecure?"
Learn more about his approach to couples counseling in the book!
Fawcett Crest / Ballantine
448 pages

Paper: $7.99  |  Kindle: $5.99

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Exeter, New Hampshire (603) 880-8773